BR0005 – How to Feel a Woman’s Tits in 5 Mins or Less

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This is a short episode of BANG RADIO where we spin off of the previous episode.  If you want the FULL Experience of this lesson check out BANG RADIO Episode 0004 breaking down How to Meet a Girl in a Parking Lot. 

In this Audio from a TSL Online Call we are covering – 

  • How you can have a woman ask you to feel her breasts once you meet her (although it may not make your dates stick)
  • How to connect deeply about sex in a superficial conversation through grounding.

These are 2 very useful things.  Believe it or not the latter is the more useful, but feeling a girl up in public and being invited to do so is something every guy needs to experience for himself.  

First How to have a woman invite you to feel her bare breast (under the shirt, under the bra) in public. 

We are starting this audio where we left off in the last, how adaptable Rapport Cycles are.  Way back when in Dallas, my buddy Mitch was one of the best seducers I have ever known.  We hung out a lot and passed around all sorts of information.  He always said, ‘People are always talking about making out in a club, but I can feel a girl’s breast in a club just as easy.  Both are useless, but it is fun to do.’  To put things in perspective, Mitch was over 40 and not the poster boy for good looks.  My PUA cohorts and I (Captain Jack & Sinn) would sleep with 30-40 women in a year no problem.  However Mitch would sleep with 15 or so, but all of them were classy, hot women, and he also would have long term relationships with 3 or 4 of them at a time.  Hate to say it but the PUAs boned a lot of so-so gals.  Of course there was some quality in there…but when it is just about sex, you over look a lot.  If you get some skills, you can be like Mitch and have plenty of sex, with women you really like and have enjoyable relationships you like, in whatever definition you choose.  

Well…that was a long story…


Here’s the deal, women love talking about their tits.  It is a massive point of femininity.  If you’re doing a rapport cycle start it out with some buffers…

Buffer – 

“Look, I’m not trying to be crude or some pervert, and you already know this, but you have some amazing tits.”

If that is too much for you, use some bait first. 

“Look, I’m not trying to be crude or some pervert, and you already know this, but…you know what I probably shouldn’t say this…”

She pushes back, “Tell me…tell me…”

“Well, you have some amazing tits.”

She blushes 

Show curiosity and interest 

“Ok so I have a questions, (add buffer) and tell me to stop if I’m going to far.  But how do they feel, or how do they sit when you’re turned on?”

She will be embarrassed, but you can calm her.  And let’s face it, asking this question is dependent on you being comfortable with asking it.  If you’re really uncomfortable with this, then take a step back, you won’t loose any points and pick a topic that is a little bit easier…like ‘You have really nice lips, I wonder what kind of kisser you are…’  (By the way, that one is gold too). 

More questions of curiosity – 

“Do you have nipples that are really perky, be honest with me, do you think your breasts are pretty?”

Once she engages with you and starts talking about them ask to feel them – 

“Hey come over here, I want to feel them.  Is that alright?”

You may or may not get some resistance, but many of the times if you show real interest they will just invite you. 

NOTE – 

Here’s the bad news folks…feeling a woman’s breasts in this sort of mode is too impersonal.  Maybe impersonal is the wrong word.  But you need to connect with her.  You have won her trust, but she is not sexually exchanging with you.  Guess how you can make this all flow together…

Second – 

How to Elicit Deep Sexual Connection in a Superficial Situation 

Whether you want to do this by itself or merge it with the ‘feeling up’ in public move, is up to you.    Here’s how it goes – 

You’re in a conversation that is superficial.  You want it to be intimate, and a woman to respect that.  This happens all the time.  I want to ‘go deep’ but she is stuck in talking about the party she was just at.  I don’t want to have that conversation, I want to have a conversation with her, not the superficial her.  

I will Rapport Cycle with something like this – 

Interrupt – 

“Hey, I have a question for you about sex and relationships…”


Ground- 

“When I was 18 I was still a virgin and I really wanted to lose my virginity.   I start dating this girl and finally we had sex.  2 Weeks after that she got kidnapped and assaulted, and it was a really horrible experience.  We stayed together for a while, but then we broke up.  After that I didn’t have any relationships or even talk to women for 3 years.  When I started having sex my sex life was all screwed up.  One of the reason why I value sex and connection now is because I got over all that stuff.  Now I love connection, sex and how people can open up…”

Challenge – 

“Let me ask you, what makes you feel comfortable and give your body to a man.”

If I wanted to ‘Double Stack’ I could say, 

“Here’s a better question, when was the last time you gave you body to a man, and he knew what to do to make you feel good?”

The story above is true about me.  You might be thinking, why would you bring that up…well, why not.  I want to have real conversations with people.  That is a real side of me.  Also people might think it is in poor taste to bring up deep personal stuff.  I personally don’t think so.  There is no manipulation, there is only honesty and dishonesty.  If I want to connect with someone and I am honest with myself and willing to be responsible then that is expression.  The problem comes in to play when we are dishonest with ourselves, others and not expressing.  With that, it is very hard to have good sex, or relationships. 

The method to all this is simple – 

  1. Get their attention with the interrupt.
  2. Tell a story that demand emotion
  3. Ask a question based on that.

You know you did it right when they open up to you. 

This might sound complex, but it is easy.  It will never be 100% because women and man aren’t supposed to connect with everyone.  We only connect with the ones that ‘click’.  A better way to look at it is, you are capable of ‘clicking’ and ‘connecting’ with a HUGE amount of people.  You only need YOU, someone else to be THEM and a CONNECTION.  The Social Dynamics above just helps that happen more.  The method isn’t the main ingredient.  You are, and she is. 

If you want to really work at this stuff…well grab our products. 

They’re nothing else like them, and they will allow you to understand and start doing what is outlined above. 

The Better Man’s Guide to Dating and Lifestyle is a quick overview of it. 

TSL Online is a total 3 month immersion into learning this and workshopping it. 

TSL Online – Virtual (go at your own pace)

TSL Online – Full Service (You do it directly with me. This is where this 5min call came from.  We have like 10-20 hours of calls a week!)

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