BR0009 – Lady in the Day, Whore in Bed

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Here is your Golden Rule for the Day – 

 All Women Want Sex 

All Women Want Good Sex

All Women Want to Have a Sexual Experience they have Never Had Before

&

All Women Want to be a Lady in the Day and a Whore in Bed 

A Woman May Know She is Hot, but rarely does she get hit on for being hot in the way that she sees herself.  A woman longs for the ability to be seen as a lady, so she can let loose to show the sexual side of her that is the whore.   Be the man that can speak this language – READ THIS ARTICLE & LISTEN TO THIS AUDIO 

 There is nothing misogynistic about this.  It is not meant to oppress, degrade or objectify.  It is meant to liberate sexuality, and speak the language of sex.  See it from that perspective and you will make this work.  If you think sex is some secrecy shameful hidden part of yourself, you will never get it.

Here is the underlying principle –  

Women love being ladies.  They love being women that can be respected as a woman.  That definition and responsibility of being a woman is up to them to define and uphold.  There are plenty of women that demand respect but don’t act like anyone that should be respected…however, those are probably the women you don’t want to talk to, or have as little contact with in your communications – hint, those are the girls you send to voicemail.  

However, all women may have that public persona of being a lady that they want to uphold, yet in the privacy of the bedroom they want freedom.  They want the sexual playground to open up so they can have limitless expression.  They desires expression in the highest form of new experiences that define their sexuality.   If you want to be a man that is loved by women… ‘A Lady in the Day and a Whore in Bed Must Be Learned’.

We made this BANG RADIO! Episode because of our friend from Melbourne Australia who is a TSL Alumni and asked on a call – 

“I’m a bouncer at a bar and I see beautiful women every night.  I see them week after week and build quick 2 min relationships with them.  How can I get into her sexual mind and start speaking that language with her?”

Well my friend, we unleash an awesome little routine for you here that will not only work for a Bouncer, but it will work in any situation if you are a little creative.  So TRY IT MEN!

Quick Note from the Audio – 

  • If a girl gets close to you, specially in between your legs, gets belly to belly, drop all conversation and work logistics to meet her again or pull her that night.  She wants to get laid, don’t get in the way of that.   Grab her hand and get in the car!
  • If women want you as a fuck buddy or to experiment sexually on she does not want to know you on a deep personal level.

In the Audio we cover the concept and principles so that you can adapt it and put it into your Sexual Lexicon and…well…have better sex.   If that is too tough for you, check out The Better Man’s Guide and TSL Online in Virtual or Full Service and learn how to do all this fancy stuff. 

Here’ the breakdown of the advice we give – 

This isn’t in the Audio, but you might want to start it off with a tease – 

Some good social lubricant –  

“I bet you’re a girl with hot chick problems….like you like being hot, but when you’re hit on badly you get all pissed off..”

Transition to Question –  

“Hey you’re a really attractive girl, how would you define being attractive?”

She answers in some way, maybe she’s confused.  But as long as you can continue to the next part…you’re good. 

Ground 

“I have a question for you, because every woman I know wants to look their best, but they never want to be hit on in bad ways.  When does looking your best work against you?  I know you always want to be treated like a lady, but why is it that men don’t know how to do that?  I am really asking for myself as well…”

 She answers or converses for a quick second

 Challenge 

“So how often do men treat you like a lady?” 

She thinks or converses

“I want to know, what is it that makes you unleash that lady side and open up and be your total self.  Like the concept of ‘A Lady in the Day and a Whore in Bed’…I don’t mean that is a bad way (buffer).   I mean that in a good way where you have been that woman, but through a man noticing that you feel close and comfortable enough to be that whore in front of him. (if you feel too uncomfortable saying ‘whore’ say ‘bad girl’ or just shift your tonality to elude to being sexual while saying ‘kind of girl’.   No excuses!  Be Sexual, it’s your purpose!) 

Here she will most likely feel a bit nervous, and she may ask you why you’re asking.  No reason to allow discomfort to stop you.  It is just the natural tension in the flow of seduction.  It means you’re doing something right!  You can say, “Well I don’t mean to offend you, but I am just asking, what makes you feel comfortable enough to let your true self out to a man?”  Basically with tough questions, learn to re-ask the same question in an easier way to answer it or understand it.  

Also in the Audio we define ‘Whore’ as “the temptress that devours a man, and allows that beauty of sex to take shape.   When a lady can have the power to humble a man…”  Also the definition we give to sex, “Sexual communication and connection, is one of the highest forms of communication and it is a gift…how do you give that gift?”

These are also ways of redefining something that might be taboo or hard to understand for someone you just met…or even someone you know well.

As for the Above Social Dynamic that is a TSL Patented Rapport Cycle.  However int he Audio we talk about another Social Dynamic of ‘Cutting the Thread’.    Here’s the idea, if we can’t complete the desired outcome of the Social Dynamic it is best to end it.  If we can’t get laid, no point in physically escalating more, it will work against us.  If we can’t get rapport no point in continuing with Rapport Cycles.   In this case we want to build over time a relationship with her sexual persona.  After 1-3 interactions, I’d ask her on a date…or maybe end up with her after hours…especially if you’re a bouncer!

 In this case we ‘Cut the Thread’ and then give direction – 

Tease – 

“Anyway, where’d you get this bullshit ID…how may cops did you have to ‘befriend’ and what did you have to do to get it?  Just joking.  Get in there and have a good night.  I don’t want to see you walking out of here with some loser and looking 3 times less hot, mainly because I know how you came in here.  And of course, anytime you want to talk about this sort of stuff…I’m always here.”

In fact if you’re a bouncer ask them to bring you something, or next time they come to bring you something. 

Our goal with TSL and BANG RADIO! is for people to be MORE Sexual.  Be more of the Expression that you were meant to be.  Sex is one of the most natural acts you can have.  There is no shame in it.  If you were meant to have it, if you were born to be sexual why feel bad about it.  Learn to express it and experience it.  Sex is one of the highest forms of communication  and expression and communication and connection defines humanity.  This is how being a fluid sexual being will truly make you the best version of yourself.  If you want to be a man, and you want the women you’re with to feel like women then start Speaking the Language of Seduction!

As a truly grateful host, I am giving a gift away with this Episode that hopefully can help you out.  It is a PDF Checklist of everything you need to know of what we covered in this Episode and a few other extras to help you learn this!

I can’t tell you enough, how much I appreciate the support of BANG RADIO! and The Sexual Life.  After only 1 week BANG RADIO! has proven to be a GREAT success!  If you want to learn more of this stuff there’s TSL Online in Virtual and Full Service.  It is a 3 month total exploration in how to Be Social, Be Sexual and turn it into a Lifestyle.    If you want to dabble a little bit in it, the Better Man’s Guide to Dating and Lifestyle is an amazing product as well.  

Steve MayedaBR0009 – Lady in the Day, Whore in Bed

Comments 1

  1. Matteus

    Mayeda’s insights into Seduction can be described in three words:
    BOLD. BRIGHT. BANGIN’! Overall, the current TSL boasts an impressive stylistic cohesiveness with its predecessor, but what makes the radio content exciting are the fresh hints of openness and expansion just beneath the surface.

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